Q:I hate sex and my boyfriend wants it all the time. What do i do. PLEASE !!!!!!!!!!!!

A:  There is that word again HATE. This is a really touchy subject sex.  I could sit here and lecture you on how sex before marriage is bad you shouldn't have it blah blah blah, but that is not what I am about.  

Okay so lets break this down.  Ask yourself do you really hate sex? What makes sex so unenjoyable for you?  The most important question have you sat down and talk to your boyfriend about how you feel on this subject?

I have found that in most woman its not the act of sex that in unenjoyable its the art of getting there. Don't think you are alone on this. There are many woman who have the same issue. I for one is one of them. If you are a mother this task is even more difficult.  Our brains our wired to be in mother mode, how can you enjoy something life that when you have kids on the brain.  

Try this candles, hot bath, nice music and have him bathe you.  Communicate to him what you like.  Help him help you make it enjoyable.  

Good Luck
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