Q:My wife and i are having a baby in June and i am feeling some what left out in the dark. Its baby this and baby that, paint the room, have a shower for the baby, when is it going to be me time?

A: Yes, men sit and listen. Ask yourself this question When will it be HER time? She is the one who is carrying the baby, her body goes through a lot of changes.

You are in the dark because you want to be in the dark.  You are the father, help her get the baby room painted, help her with the baby shower. Ask her questions about the baby, how the baby is developing.  Make yourself a part of the excitement. 

I know right now it seems like its never going to end, but the more you help her the more time she will have for you. Its been the trick for years.  Stop whining about it, and embrace that you are both bringing a life into this world. Not saying dont take time for yourself, you should get up before she wakes up and have your quiet moment of peace, reflect on your day to come. 

Good Luck!
Bable