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Q: I am having problems with a neighbor. I want to be the best Christian I can be but this one is coming over into my yard after I asked them not to, also causing trouble with other neighbors, I personally seen this person walking the streets high and or drunk late at night. How do I maintain my morals and lay to rest the anger towards this person?
A: First of all i want to say i am sorry for taking so long to get back to you on this matter, i have been having some issues of my own.
I would handle this one of two ways, you can get the neighborhood together and all go to this person and let them know how he is acting, and how you guys do not appreciate him TRESPASSING! Or you can go over to him alone and let him know that if you see him on your lawn again you will call the cops, and let him know that you have asked him several times to stay off your property and he refuses.
Now with him walking the streets the best thing to do is CALL THE COPS, he could hurt himself, or someone else, and you dont want that on you.
You have the right to be angry at this person. Its how we handle it that makes us who we are. I would not approach him with the intent of being loud and angry, but approach him with stern words letting him know that it is not okay and you are upset about this. If you are calm yet firm you will come over as not an asshole, but not a push over either. I wish you the best of luck and keep us updated.
Good Luck!
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