Posted by Bable on Wednesday, December 14, 2011,
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Q:Here it is Christmas time and I find myself full of so much dark thoughts,Do you know of a hot line or groups that I might join or call? I am afraid with all these feelings I might fall to doing harm to myself.
A: Yes this is a very very hard time for many people, please use Rev. Lisa's services, she has a number on her contact page for you to call. Call her and we will get you the concealing you need to make it through this tough time of year, but here are some other numbers1-800-273-825... Continue reading ...
Posted by Bable on Saturday, November 5, 2011,
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Q: Hello Bable, I am 19 and have been married for 2 years, My husband was over sea's in the army. He just came back a month ago and treats me with no respect. Telling me what to wear, he tells me when or if I can go out places with my female friends and what time I have to be home even if he isn't there him self. Just two days ago he told me as his wife it is my duty to making sure his uniforms are washed and ironed for him at all times. It is not like I am a housewife I am going to school to... Continue reading ...
Posted by Bable on Tuesday, August 23, 2011,
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Q: I am having problems with a neighbor. I want to be the best Christian I can be but this one is coming over into my yard after I asked them not to, also causing trouble with other neighbors, I personally seen this person walking the streets high and or drunk late at night. How do I maintain my morals and lay to rest the anger towards this person?
A: First of all i want to say i am sorry for taking so long to get back to you on this matter, i have been having some issues of my own.
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Posted by Bable on Tuesday, July 19, 2011,
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Q: I would like to know your feelings on homosexuality ?
A: I want to start of saying this is my opinion and what I think, this does not reflect from the staff of Spiritual Friends.
Now to answer your question. I have no issues with homosexuality one bit. I do on the other hand believe that marriage between a man and man or a woman and woman is not right it should be between man and woman. I know this can spark a lot of hate and debate on this subject. I am not saying you shoul... Continue reading ...
Posted by Bable on Wednesday, July 13, 2011,
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Q:What is it with Churches these days? Ministers gone bad? Last night I was watching T.V and another leader has falling, He was caught sending sexual text to a young female member of his church . The news quoted that he said his wife was home sick and he could not get how beautiful and her rocking hot body out of his mind, and he is sorry this happened! what is happening to this world that pervs run our churches? It seems to me the trust is broken and makes me not want to have anything to do ... Continue reading ...
Posted by Bable on Thursday, July 7, 2011,
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Q:My husband wants an open marriage and I am not sure if I am keen on the idea, I think it is a cop out and he wants to have affair and in my anger i want to sleep with another man to get back at him. what are your thoughts on this?
A: Ahhh, yes the ol open marriage. I feel you on this one. In my opinion this is the way a man tries to have his cake and eat it to. I think if he really wanted to leave you he would have left by now, but he is looking for a way to justify sleeping with someo...
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Posted by Bable on Sunday, June 19, 2011,
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Q:I was wondering if you have any views on the use of cannabis in religion and on the medical benefits? I came across a site from CA that allows you to procure medical cannabis cards, Doesn't this lead to an easy excess to the misuse of cannabis?
A: MMMMM cannabis.... oh crap wait you have a question. This is an amazing debate that i love reading on and love hearing peoples opinions, i love that people twist Bible and make it fit agenda. (but dont we all :) )
So lets get down to this :)...
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Posted by Bable on Sunday, June 12, 2011,
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Q:Hello Bable, I wanted to find out what your views are on religion and state and the separation of the two? It seems to me there is a whole lot of Lies coming out of those that hold a high office these days, Governor of California is one that comes to mind. Not to mention using state funds to raise a child out of wedlock.
A: Good question, you asked me a question and i am going to answer this, nothing more. Ask yourself this question, what was America's foundation?
Columbus set sail...
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Posted by Bable on Sunday, June 5, 2011,
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Q:Hello Bable, I want to start out I am a Big Fan of yours! I noticed you went on vacation and thought I would ask how was your Vacation and if you don't mind me asking did you leave the states by chance? I was wondering if you could give me some on advice on a vacation spot for a family of 5 my youngest is 14 months old and oldest is 16.
A: First of all I want to say thank you for reading my advice column. I did go on vacation 9 Glorious days of good ol down home relaxation. I did not l...
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Posted by Bable on Sunday, June 5, 2011,
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Hello My readers,
I want to say thank you to all the people who read my advice column, and especially those who participated you are making it possible for me to keep going.
Recently you may have noticed that I went on a little nine day vacation. While I would have loved to travel the world I went back to my little home town and reconnected with my family. I spent nine glorious but yet heartbreaking days without my kids, but i got the rest and relaxation I needed.
Just to let ...
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Posted by Rev. Lisa Taylor on Monday, May 23, 2011,
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Babble is on vacation from 5-20-11 to 5-29-11. any sent in letters will be answered and posted when Bable returns so dont stop sending them in..Have a Great Vacation Bable, Continue reading ...
Posted by Bable on Friday, May 6, 2011,
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Q: How much does a guy spend on and engagment ring? My friends that are girls say a months wage. what do you think?
A: Okay so this would be one of those questions that men have been asking for years. Women would say a months wages, but i am going to tell you different. If she really loves you and you really love her, the ring doesn't matter. If you can save up a months wages, get what you can afford. I think whomever came up with the month wage crap was a woman so they could get th...
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Posted by Bable on Saturday, April 30, 2011,
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Q:I would like to know your opinion on how to handle a co worker that likes to spred gossip like wild fire through the office, it can tend to be hurtful to those she targets and the boss just says over look her because she is one of the top sales persone we have.
A: This one is a tricky one. Especially when the boss is saying to over look it, which in itself is WRONG. First of all this could take a group effort on the whole staff.
Here is a question: Does she know she is hurting peop...
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Posted by Bable on Friday, April 29, 2011,
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Q: Which is better, Boxers or briefs or should I just go Commando now for the summer?
A: Boxers would give you more room to breath then briefs this summer. Commando is a tricky one, you get the rubbing of your penis on your zipper, unless you are wearing mesh shorts and your taking the risk of getting zipped up.
I would say go with boxers this summer, you get the breathing room and coverage from the zipper.
Good Luck! (happy breathing my friend :) )
Bable ...
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Posted by Bable on Thursday, April 21, 2011,
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Q:My wife and i are having a baby in June and i am feeling some what left out in the dark. Its baby this and baby that, paint the room, have a shower for the baby, when is it going to be me time?
A: Yes, men sit and listen. Ask yourself this question When will it be HER time? She is the one who is carrying the baby, her body goes through a lot of changes.
You are in the dark because you want to be in the dark. You are the father, help her get the baby room painted, help her with the ba...
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Posted by Bable on Wednesday, April 20, 2011,
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Q: have read this Column a few times, and I want to say WOW what a great thing your doing. I feel a little funny writing into something like this but I feel that parents should teach their children about sex in the home and my daughter wants to take it in school, I don't want her to feel alienate from her friends but I really don't want her to go through this class. Am I being a prude about this or am I right in standing my ground? I hope to hear from you soon.
A: First off I want to say ...
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Posted by Bable on Wednesday, April 13, 2011,
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Q:I have a neighbor that has a young teen age daughter that has found herself in the family way, she is scared to tell her parents but confided in me.what should I do or should I even do anything at all to help her? she isnt my child.
A: I am assuming you mean pregnant? We as adults (most of us) have that urge to protect children, even when we did not produce those children. Here is what you need to ask yourself. What are her parents like? Do you think they will over react? Most importan...
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Posted by Bable on Monday, April 11, 2011,
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Q:My son is on drugs and is a good boy but the drugs makes him crazy,He steals from me, and hits his wife.what can i do to help him?
A: Tuff question!
First of all, he is your son i understand that but stealing call the police tuff love is the best way to go. Yes you run the chance of him being angry at you and possibly not talking to you for awhile. You also need to locate a drug rehab facility and they can help you get an intervention going. If you would like help locating or con...
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Posted by Bable on Monday, April 11, 2011,
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Q:I hate sex and my boyfriend wants it all the time. What do i do. PLEASE !!!!!!!!!!!!
A: There is that word again HATE. This is a really touchy subject sex. I could sit here and lecture you on how sex before marriage is bad you shouldn't have it blah blah blah, but that is not what I am about.
Okay so lets break this down. Ask yourself do you really hate sex? What makes sex so unenjoyable for you? The most important question have you sat down and talk to your boyfriend about ho...
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